Do you want it easy or forever?

The title of this blog instantly stuck me as I read it somewhere on the web. I don’t know how much it impacts you. But reading it is definitely going to make some difference.

I don’t know how many can relate with the title of this blog. But certainly I can relate to it. Life till date has not been easy for me. I have struggled, prayed, worked hard and remained clear about what I wanted for me. However, time and again, like any ambitious girl, I would always ask myself why I have to struggle so much to achieve everything I want. An inner voice would always reply back that do you want to have it easy or forever? 

Choose for yourself wisely today because whatever you choose is going to influence your life later. 

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Like me, many of you have always thought the same. There is a huge difference between getting it easy or keeping it forever. This ‘it’ I am describing here can be any personal goal which one wants for his life. After this pandemic has hit us, things have started to become difficult for us. We lost our jobs, we lost our confidence, we have pressures, we have negativity and we have so much to cope with in life. All these burdens have escalated our struggles and we have been left with no options but being patient and waiting for the times when things get settled. 

Motivation in life is very crucial. Life definitely does not come easy for a large part of us. We have to be capable of organising ourselves in a way that no amount of pressure can shake or fall us. Then comes a concept of sustainability. If you have dreams and aspirations for life, these need to be sustainable and forever. 

Something that is easily available to us is not valued long-term and hence, not sustainable. But when we know we have struggled so hard to get it, we value it above everything. So sustainability is there. As time passes, we have to be clear about our life principles and philosophies since this should be our guiding light. No one is going to come and ask us to be motivated. We have to be capable enough to pick ourselves up and motivate ourselves from time to time. But I feel that there are certainly some things that can be done to make our struggles focussed and sustainable. Let me list a few of them here. 

• Talk to like-minded people

• Read good and motivating stuff

• Organise yourself and make SMART goals

• Be private as they say, ‘people cannot ruin what they don’t know’

• Have faith and patience

• Keep yourself busy

The process of taking sustainable decisions for life should be a continuous one. Just because we have to struggle for everything we want in life does not mean we are not worth it. It just means that once we achieve it, we are going to keep it forever. 

Why does Good Vibe matter in Covid-19?

Over the years, I have realised that a vibe actually plays a significant role in our lives. I turned 29 on 14th December 2021 and I have realised that ‘a normal human being’ craves for a good vibe. There are so many motivational quotes and articles on the internet. We instantly feel energised when we come across something which is just too motivating. Isn't it? That’s the power of a good vibe.

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As a writer, I have often observed things and focussed on analysis. However, after 2 years of living a pandemic stuck life, the amount of negativity has increased around us. This negativity has developed due to many factors. Let's take these factors one by one. 

• No work at all as industries are badly hit 
• True colours of people 
• Lack of productive feelings 
• Lack of opportunities to explore 
• Lack of travel 
• Exhausting savings 

This list is personal and everyone can have their own factors that have added to their negativity. Being the first blog, I really wanted a topic which is very personal to me and something I strongly feel about. I have roughly a writing career of 7 years and in all these, I have learnt to weave a good amount of words for myself. I feel that I have the capacity to transform my ideas into thoughts.

With so much negativity around, I believed that people must find new and engaging ways to get rid of this shit or else this can lead to severe emotional breakdowns. Emotional breakdowns are not easy to manage and must not be left unaddressed. I have realised that it is important that we take care of our vibes and do things that comfort us instead of thinking about others. As they say, ‘a person can keep others' happy when he is happy himself.’ So, it is very important to do things that can keep us happy. 

Some of the things that I believe can be done include-

• Writing, as I am doing to get rid of all the stress 
• Exploring opportunities to make money 
• Staying away from negative energy 
• Reading good and positive things 
• Focus on your entertainment 

It's absolutely important to take care of your vibe more than anything. You need not surround yourself with many people. Even a single person can comfort you in the best possible way. The thing which matters is the energy. The energies around you should be good and you should be your own master. 

You can have different ways of keeping yourself in a good vibe. I strongly wish to know them. Let’s connect through my blog and make our world a better place to live. 

Until next, stay in a good mood!