The Amazing Power of Communication

The title of the blog makes it clear that today’s stuff is about the importance of communication in our lives; personal & professional. I have been a strong believer of the fact that right & healthy communication can heal people a lot. Of course, opinions do vary and some even think that silences can do wonders. But I’m not that person who would be silent when deep inside I have so much to say and express. 

I read somewhere on the internet that ‘Certain unsaid things have the power of haunting us all our lives.’ This clicked me instantly! 

Expression is part of our lives and as human beings, we have got this amazing thing called feeling. Feelings vary; sad, angry, happy, smiling, healing, broken, low, emotionally down and many others. 

But have you ever wondered what makes us connected to the people we genuinely love and care about? It's communication! One should never under-estimate the power of good communication. When we express our thoughts and opinions in a good way, it helps us heal inside, feel happy and content. Obviously, we are human beings and we cannot be satisfied about anything in life. But still there comes a point when we all want to heal. So, talk! 

The rule is simple! 

• Want to tell something to someone, do it!
• Want to show your anger, do it!
• Want to fix things, say it!
• Want to heal, talk to people who think will listen!

There are few instances that I have written here. But everytime you feel sad, low or drained, all you need is to communicate. But wait, communication does not only happen when things are sad. Even in good situations, communication works wonders. It helps in instilling that awesome positivity in you which you’ve always wanted. 

But the sad part is that we have always overlooked the power of communicating. As people, we have egos, insecurities, fear and a different perspective due to which we fail to talk to people. This leads to so much negativity inside out that it gets difficult to handle and situations become toxic. 

Understand, when we talk in a healthy way, there is a power to mend a lot of things that can go worse otherwise. It makes us sorted and organised so that our thought process is always in the right direction and we can work towards improving ourselves. 

Here are some of the benefits of communication in our lives.

• It helps us to be positive & optimistic.

• It strengthens our bond with the other person.

• It makes us sorted.

• It increases trust and loyalty in the bond we genuinely want in our lives.

• It helps us explore various professional opportunities that otherwise may be lost.

• It helps us GROWTH MINDSET.

• It makes us a good human being without any need to prove ourselves.

• It brings peace.

Benefits of communication are immense and you can always have your own benefits. I definitely want you to practice in your lives and ensure that you do not miss good things in your life.

Ultimately, life is about perspective so let’s keep it simple & sorted! 

Till then, Happy Communication Folks! 

Do you want it easy or forever?

The title of this blog instantly stuck me as I read it somewhere on the web. I don’t know how much it impacts you. But reading it is definitely going to make some difference.

I don’t know how many can relate with the title of this blog. But certainly I can relate to it. Life till date has not been easy for me. I have struggled, prayed, worked hard and remained clear about what I wanted for me. However, time and again, like any ambitious girl, I would always ask myself why I have to struggle so much to achieve everything I want. An inner voice would always reply back that do you want to have it easy or forever? 

Choose for yourself wisely today because whatever you choose is going to influence your life later. 

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Like me, many of you have always thought the same. There is a huge difference between getting it easy or keeping it forever. This ‘it’ I am describing here can be any personal goal which one wants for his life. After this pandemic has hit us, things have started to become difficult for us. We lost our jobs, we lost our confidence, we have pressures, we have negativity and we have so much to cope with in life. All these burdens have escalated our struggles and we have been left with no options but being patient and waiting for the times when things get settled. 

Motivation in life is very crucial. Life definitely does not come easy for a large part of us. We have to be capable of organising ourselves in a way that no amount of pressure can shake or fall us. Then comes a concept of sustainability. If you have dreams and aspirations for life, these need to be sustainable and forever. 

Something that is easily available to us is not valued long-term and hence, not sustainable. But when we know we have struggled so hard to get it, we value it above everything. So sustainability is there. As time passes, we have to be clear about our life principles and philosophies since this should be our guiding light. No one is going to come and ask us to be motivated. We have to be capable enough to pick ourselves up and motivate ourselves from time to time. But I feel that there are certainly some things that can be done to make our struggles focussed and sustainable. Let me list a few of them here. 

• Talk to like-minded people

• Read good and motivating stuff

• Organise yourself and make SMART goals

• Be private as they say, ‘people cannot ruin what they don’t know’

• Have faith and patience

• Keep yourself busy

The process of taking sustainable decisions for life should be a continuous one. Just because we have to struggle for everything we want in life does not mean we are not worth it. It just means that once we achieve it, we are going to keep it forever.